This is a little debate that I have been having for quite a while now. First of all this is just my opinion/thoughts so please do not start caplocking me :)
Basically, this has been bugging me for quite some time. I don't know why, but it always seems to happen to me. What seems to always happen to me you ask?
Well, I find it easier to make friends with guys way more than when I have to make friends with girls. With guys its easier to click and joke, whereas, with girls there always seems to be that 'omg look what she's wearing' and/or 'she likes my crush.. make her life hell'. But don't get me wrong this is not always the case.
A little story, I made friends with this guy that was in my drama club, we didn't really talk so I was genuinely surprised when he started talking to me on facebook. We agreed to meet up for coffee and exchanged numbers. The first coffee meet up we had was very jokey, very funny and very relaxing. The second time we met up for coffee it was the same. But the third time he suggested something else such as going to his house to watch a movie. That was fine as well, but what really bugs me is that I thought that we were doing all of this just as friends but oooh nooo boy was I wrong about that!
I find out that he fancies me so what do I do now?
When you want to keep a guy as a friend but then the (sometimes) stupid feelings start getting in the way which can be from both sides, not just his, you are left with no option but to start hinting that you're not interested. I hate doing this, as I don't have the biggest experience when it comes to 'rejecting' someone regardless of how nice they are. I just wish that the 'feelings' never would've started happening and we would've been able to just hang out as friends, but what can you do?
So my question is can boys just be friends with girls? because this hasn't happened to me just once but it seems to have happened a lot of times, and you may say 'STOP FLIRTING YOU DESPERATE HOE' but honestly if I was flirting I would've admitted that I 'led' him on, and I would've admitted that it was my fault but when this is not the case my question is still pending for an answer.
Any volunteers?
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